America’s next president

      I know it is not  an interesting topic for most of women, coz most of them are not interested in Politics. So did i.

     But now i do think, if America’s next president is a woman, it is a significant milestone in the human history. why i say so? if she can be the president, it means women can pursue their dreams equally as the men. We will not forget her husband’s sex scandal, that is not only a betrayal but also a public humiliation for her and we all see she finally forgave her husband. Maybe at that time, she had to forgive, she had to be strong , who knows?

    In other words, i do hope she will be the next president. it may psycologily gives me a sign that is what i’m doing now is right.

    As a married woman, i get used to rely on my husband mentally so much. I don’t think it’s a right way to do. I need intrinsic happiness from myself !

   Eventually i have to learn how to satisfy my needs by myself. Husband ? kids? they are maybe important for a certain period not forever.

  I treat it as —” grown up” .

感觉过了很久很久

     爱情是什么? 我想大概是一时的激情.

     婚姻是什么? 我想大概是彼此的习惯,那还有没有爱情?我觉得仅仅是习惯加上对以前激情的美丽回忆!

     结婚后还会有爱上别人的可能吗?还没结婚的姐妹别被吓到,我觉得可能会!(否则怎么会有那么多人离婚,然后又结婚呢?!!)

     做”人”到底是拿来做什么的?原来就是什么都要经历到,不管是痛的,喜的,悲的,苦的.

究竟在追寻什么?

       我来到了又一个异乡-新加坡!一个从没想过要流浪的我,就这样在不停的流浪着,我是为了流浪而流浪还是为了达到某个目标而流浪?好象是这样，本来是为了某个目标而流浪,但后来就变成,为了流浪而流浪…

      一个陌生的国度,一切都会让你觉得不安,一切都会让你充满了怀疑,我不得不说我厌倦了这种总充满未知的生活,但人又是那么的无奈，一旦你开始了流浪,就会有那么多借口让你停不下脚步,你走的国家越多,越是会看到各个国家不同的优缺点,最后是哪里都是家,哪里又都没有家的感觉.

     其实到哪不都是生活,我会继续的流浪,希望哪天流浪到家乡,跟自己爱的人在那里生活,一样是生活…