Monthly Archives: 十一月 2007

我做不了赌徒

      在这几年中国所谓的”投资大时代”时期,我身边出现了很多赌徒,赌股票,赌房子.赌婚姻,我自认为我做不了赌徒,因为我的心不够黑,手腕不够狠,我太有自知之明.所以我觉得我是发不了横财,走不了狗屎运的人.

     人生的起伏很难说,高点和低点交替轮换,如果在人生高点的时候去透支消费,觉得自己只会是走上扬线的,这种想法未免太幼稚.等低点来临那天哭也来不及.

    所以,我总是活的小心翼翼的,我喜欢做非常充足的准备.就连家里的手纸,我也会每次多买上一大包,绝不让它出现断档现象.晚上能早睡就尽量早睡,保持充足的睡眠才能应付明天不为所知的困难.

    总之,我很保守,对得来容易的爱情和婚姻也看成如获珍宝般,因为我惜缘,我一直觉得人在死亡以后唯一尚存人间的就是灵魂,灵魂是需要爱和坚贞去浇灌.而且不懂得爱的人最后可能都会失去灵魂永存的机会.

   我很批判,所以我做不了赌徒,我不爱跟着别人的思维走,越是看上去绝对美妙的事物,我越是批判.

   我,做不了赌徒,我真的发现!

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surprise from Laogong

        One day we were shopping in Plaza indonesia. We went to a toy shop, this toy shop is the’ hometown ‘for few of my very lovely teddy bears, i saw a beautiful high heel shoe (just a toy shoe) which can be used as a ring-holder, i wanted to buy but as i already made a decision right after i came back from China- no any meaningless shopping during this month cos i have had shopped till i dropped ,so i had to say no to the lovely shoe.

       Today, when laogong came back from work and  took out the lovely shoe from his pocket, i was so happy! the surprise thing is not only about the gift ,that is he even remembers! i never expected he would remember such a small thing!really appreciate it, laogong!

       I wish i can bring you a surprise in the near future…….but we both know what can be a nice surprise, right? let’s wish for the best! 🙂

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奢侈品,我买不起

       在我身边的一群随夫妻子团中,少不了出手阔绰的阔太太,那口子是金领的也不计其数,那一出门,排场啊!最差也要整个BMW,约会也总在五星级饭店,肩背精致的GUCCI或FENDI小挎包,再弄个这几年超流行的GUCCII,VERSACE的大黑墨镜,手指闪烁着至少一克拉的大钻戒,这就出行宫了.

      相比之下,我有点捉襟见肘,我那口子不是什么金领,也就是个中上水平收入的白领,俺因为人生地不熟,也就是个”家里蹲”的小妇人,穷学生.我也极少买名牌,不怕您笑话,俺就没敢进过GUCCI的专卖店,所以每次和她们这些阔太太约会吃饭便是我长见识的时候,例如哪个牌子的跑车出新款了,什么牌子的包包很好看了,就算没吃过猪肉,看看猪跑也不错.酒足饭饱后各自打道回府,也就是所谓的社交了.

     有时真想狠狠心弄个名牌货,买一两个包包和首饰,这点开销老公还是绝对会支持的,但还没鼓起勇气走进那些奢侈店前,俺就立刻断了念头,干吗呢?有钱也不能这样糟蹋呀,包不就是用的吗?干吗花上个几万块买个牌子呢,如果想要质量好的,买个真皮包不就好了吗!钻石再大,又不当饭吃,戴在手上也晃人眼,有个就够了,老公疼爱买个大点的也无妨,但也无需出去显摆.

    有个尚存良心的小贵妇诚恳的告诉我,我也不喜欢这样显摆,但人家都这样,没有掉份,掉的是老公的份,没办法,这就是名利场,大家都要假体面,这我多少也能体会,可能等我们真的很有钱,很有钱的时候我也会那样,至少目前我希望,如果那天真的来临,我也能做个朴实的我,不要势力眼,多想想民间疾苦啊……..

   善哉,一个GUCCI包包买多少大米啊……………………………………………….至少可以买几筐大闸蟹………………………..呵呵!

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我的脸上痘开花

    可能最近一直飞来飞去的关系,从热的地方飞到冷的地方,再飞回来,皮肤再也受不了这份折磨,开始一个劲地冒痘了,真不知道哪位好同志能够指点迷津,到底该如何预防这些烦人的痘痘啊!

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把照片做了点灯光处理,可痘痘还是清晰可见啊!

我要除痘,有痘可真不逗!

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these three months

 The past three months, i’ve been in Shanghai three times, Thailand two times,finally everything is done. i  sold my small apartment, when will i be in Shanghai again? i don’t know, but not very soon…..attach a pic which has been taken just before i left China, miss that time with those girls.

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